The most common mistake we make is when we assume that we are going smoothly ahead in the bond called friendship. There are certain things involved that can jeopardize your otherwise healthy relationship. In the beginning we take it our job to boss the other person. That’s how other people around put it before you. Owing to such misperceptions, we are likely to commit blunders that can end us into a heart break and the chances are that you are going to live in that pit for a longer time later on. Here are few tips that can help you prevent those upsetting situations:
Give room to the other person
The most common mistake we commit when we are in a relationship is that we forget that other person needs time for himself as well. We pry into his life and consider it legal. Not every time your guy is going to like it. Remember not to push him to the limit where he begins to drift away just because you do not respect his personal space. Giving room can exhibit positivity from your side.
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Curb your bossy urge
Many a times we like to take control of situations, we like giving orders and taking decisions for our partners. We need to be sure that we are not violating the rules of a relationship. One should be careful before implementing one’s decision because that can rock your boat. Keeping your partner into confidence and deciding things together ensures peace and trust within the relationship.
Discuss things where necessary
When in conflict, consider discussing things like what could have possibly gone wrong here? Admit where you are wrong and highlight your partner’s fault. But never forget that in telling him so, you must not push him too hard that it affects his ego and the stability of your relationship is at risk. Because once the grudge is harbored, guys are good at reminding you at times when you least expect them to.
Do not involve third person unless it is the only option
Arguments, conflicts, disagreements are natural to occur between two people or more than two people. Wise people consider it good to have ups and downs in a relationship because these overtures bring two people closer. In conflict, keep the fight to yourself. Sharing might swell the issue which wasn’t one in the beginning. Partners usually react to situations where their personal life is exposed to outsiders. Refrain from taking help from people unless things get out of control and you need the words of wisdom right away. Never hear the other person completely. Apply your knowledge and understanding of your partner and do things their way. Following other’s suggestions blindly can put you through a lot of turmoil.
We fool ourselves when we pretend in front of our partners. We don’t realize it in the first place that what attracted our partners to ourselves was our natural self. Artificiality is the thing that puts down many men. Guys are outspoken, if they want you to change they will say that in your face. If they don’t want, they will never bring it up. Stay natural and reign his heart without much ado.